Routines—we all get into them. Mine starts out with
“headline—space—Angela Thomas.” Always.
I have been working at the Philadelphia Gay News for one
year now and I have my routine. I come into the office ten minutes (or
admittedly ten minutes after) 9 a.m., coffee in hand, spending my time catching
up on emails, sorting details of the day before I start writing at 10 a.m. For
the rest of the day, I write articles on the transgender leader coming to Philly,
the queer lawyer getting the award, the LGBT community center hosting an
important event, the queer Latin@ group setting a positive example in the
community. This is my life. I write, write, write and every day, I am inspired
by the people I interview.
It’s been a year and I have grown. One year ago, I barely
talked to anyone. Talking to Philadelphia Pride Presents president Franny Price
was terrifying to me. I didn’t know about half the organizations around.
One year later and I slip into the office, flirting
carelessly with office manager, Carol while making jokes with other staff. I
talk to my editor about our favorite shows Orange is the New Black, Pretty
Little Liars and Girls. I have no problem calling Franny—in fact I look forward
to our calls. If I had to pick, I would say that GALAEI: A Queer Latin@ Social
Justice Organization has inspired me the most. But I could name ten other
organizations that have touched my life.
I’ve interviewed people that other journalists could only
dream of. I’ve heard stories that had me in tears or had me smiling.
The truth is my life turned around in a complete circle. May
2012, I was trying on my cap and gown and imagining myself working at PGN, my
best friend, Rae, working at the Philadelphia Inquirer. I imagined myself
moving into an apartment in Philadelphia surrounded by amazing friends.
It came true.
September 17, I was hired as a staff writer for PGN, Rae
went on to work as a staff writer for The Daily Local and I moved into an
apartment in West Philly this summer with some amazing new friends. My life has
come full circle. Who would have thought? Not this girl.
I’ve definitely come into my own—grown more comfortable in
my skin and in my community in which I write about. I’ve learned that not everything
is gay or straight, male or female. There is a beautiful grey area looking for
recognition.
I’ve learned to take the phrase “you’re lucky” with a grain
of salt. This wasn’t luck; this was hard work and dedication. This was a
journey that took blood, sweat and tears to create. Luck didn’t hand me this
experience on a silver platter. I had to work for it.
I always say this—dreams do come true. ‘The field of
journalism is impossible’ they said to us. We proved them wrong. This year
isn’t just about me and my one-year. This is about Rae, who works for The Daily
Local. This is about Deanna, who was an assistant sports producer for
Philly.com and now works as an assistant advertising coordinator. This is about
Laura who works as an editorial assistant for a publishing company in
Philadelphia. This is about Rebekah who is in grad school to be the next best
queer outreach staff. This is about Carol, who just got a job in human
resources and proves every day that life is beautiful.
This is to more years writing about a community that I
would be nothing without.
YOU ARE THE MOST PERFECT SPECIMEN OF A HUMAN BEING. I love you so much! I am beyond happy for you for working so hard to be able to live your dream. You make it look so easy. ;) I'm incredibly inspired by you, and I'm so proud to call you a best friend. Also, my name is Carol (like your office manager) and my mom's name is Franny! CONNECTION~
ReplyDeleteOMG Carol Fritz, I heart you so freaking much. I am so happy for you as well! 1) You've got a great fiance (I tell Laura everytime that he is the best hugger) 2) YOU GOT THE JOB GIRL! So Proud...like they event had to think about it thought. There is no one better for the position. 3) CONNECTIONS! I love that connection!
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